For us to become the BEST versions of ourselves, we must face certain challenges and obstacles in order to progress and grow as a human being. Our ego most of the time wants to skip these necessary steps but remind yourself to be humble enough to learn and go through these stages.
Healing your inner child is a must to heal all your wounds you experienced back then. Our minds are like little kids, trapped at a certain age when we experienced trauma and your mind will hold onto it until you heal and let it go.
Start doing right by your future self. Every action and decision you make is moulding your future into a success or repeated past cycles. If you want a certain outcome, you must make the decisions today that your future self will be proud of !
Comparison is what gets us all, especially when we see others living a life we want and somehow think we cannot be doing the same. We should realize that those people are an inspiration to how we want and absolutely can live our lives. We all can make it, we all can shine.
Releasing old envy and jealousy from your spouse's past is what is beneficial for the success of YOUR relationship with them in the future. Understanding your root blocks towards this envy is KEY to letting it go for good so you can start to thrive in your current relationship.
Your HEALTH is your WEALTH. Without having a well maintained body, it won't take you to the places that you want to go, you will be spending a lifetime trying to fix your body when all you could of done earlier was take care of it in a proper way. It is a vital act of SELF LOVE. Stop abusing yourselves!
Being annoyed, frustrated or angry with someone is just something you are projecting out onto that person. We cannot perceive what we don't see about ourselves.
Those "annoying" people around you are gifts to understand the deeper hidden traumas within yourself.
Dig deep folks, dig deep.
Persistence OVER Perfection people!! This is what will get you to succeed and get you living a life you want. We were taught to be perfect from the very start but how NONHUMAN is that?! We come to this world in a messy way, whatever we start should be that, MESSY! Until we gather more skills to start looking the way we want it to.
Sometimes we don't recognize that we are aligned towards what we want because of our self sabotage.
People need to start to realize that when you have that impulse to go after it, you truly are aligned right in that moment. Follow it, allow it to guide you.
Having a plan for life is a great thing but thing is we often set up so many back up plans that our initial plan NEVER works out.
When we finally make a decision that its ALL or nothing that is when the magic truly start to happen. That is when you are living your dream life.