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6 Tips To Be A More Bad-ass Confident Goddess

"Don't tell a girl with fire in her veins and hurricane bones what she should and shouldn't do. In a blink of an eye, she will shatter that ridiculous cage you attempt to build around her beautiful bohemian spirit." - Melody Lee

Let's face it, we all want to feel and be fully confident in who we are and what we are doing, after all that kind of FIERCE energy attracts a vast amount of opportunities right to your front door.

It's bad-ass. It's sexy. It's energy moving. & it has a taste of class to it when done right. amirite ladies?


It's the kind of free access feeling we can all tune in and tap into to make us feel so empowered, so worthy, so enough that we can literally start tasting our dreams right before it happens. Again, so bad-freaking ass.

& it get the days where all us ladies can feel so powerless, so empty, so lonely and so very dis-empowered based on the different experiences we all went through and things that have been said about us to make us feel that way. Just know that it isn't true and that you can very well heal up and show the world WHAT IS UP!

So, I have been through that stage of unworthiness, not-enoughness, being cheated on, bullied etc. etc. The list honestly can go on but again this isn't what this post is about. Here, I will share the exact 6 things that have helped me go through the motions, heal my soul right up and arise as the bad-ass goddess queen I came to this very planet to be. Ready to join me, because there is definitely room for more of us! ;)

1. Heal Your Soul Up!!

First things first ladies, HHEEEAAAALLL!! If you know you have been having a problem with feeling worthy, feeling enough and super confident. Talk to someone, get a life coach, get a therapist, a hypnotherapist, do SOMETHING that will help you understand where exactly those feelings are coming from and how you can start healing so that your past doesn't affect you ever again. mmm kay?

2. Visualize Your Highest Self.

TUNNNNNEEE RIGHT IN! Honestly, we all have a vision of what our goddess energy feels like and acts like. So tune right in.

If you haven't thought or visualized for a while what your confident self looks and acts like, schedule some time in your day to truly sit down and SEE her! Once you start tapping into that energy, you will start feeling like her, acting like her and being like her. You can totally do it and especially when you are in a funk, this will lift your mood right up just thinking about your highest self.

3. Create and Place Boundaries.

The newest and most highest version of yourself, no longer makes excuses and allows people to treat her like whatever. OK???!!

Seriously, check where people may have crossed some serious boundaries that you were never okay with but you accepted at the time to please them. It's no longer about pleasing others but pleasing yourself, as a happy YOU will equal happy energy and happy individuals to be around you. Also place boundaries on certain places, jobs, habits that you just no longer want in your environment. A great way to also understand what boundaries you should place is again, think of your highest self, would she allow those things in her life that you are currently allowing right now?

If not, GET > RID > OF > THEM !!

4. Make Room For Some Fun in Your Life.

HONESTLY!! Think about the times you completely let go of all worries, got with your girls, put on something nice, did your hair, nails, makeup etc. How did you feel?

Fierce, amazing, sexy, bad-ass, confident? EXACTLY!! You get my point.

Make the time in your schedule to do something fun, something that makes your soul thrive, it's one of the quickest ways to make yourself feel so confident. AND I don't want to hear from the ladies at the back that oh no, I got no time for that, I have this to take care of, that to do, I am in my mid 30's -40's etc. UM SO WHAT??? Does that mean you can't have fun anymore?

Who put that brule on you ?

>> Oh, yourself? Well guess what, the highest version of you would go out and have fun regardless of everything else and age. SO PLEASE GO OUT & HAVE FUN!!

5. De-clutter Your Environment

Now this one may have not been expected but seriously think about how you feel when you have your clothes everywhere, dishes in the sink, dust on your shelves etc. It brings you right down!

"And one day she discovered that she was fierce, and strong, and full of fire, and that not even she could hold herself back because her passion burned brighter than her fears." - Mark Anthony

Go through your space, clear the clutter from your environment and you will see just how much of a boost that will give you internally. It's kind of funny how a clean and organized home can make us feel so bad ass and empowered. So get to it!

6. Think and Speak Highly of Yourself.

We are our own worst critic when it comes to ourselves and how we are doing in your life.

When you see and feel the highest version of you, do you really think she does that? NOPE!!

Think about how the highest version of yourself would speak to herself. Now, you don't have to do this out loud for everyone to hear as most people will just get triggered by your confidence (as they may be severally lacking it) and just say how egotistic you are and may criticize you.

Do this internally, do it every time you have a negative thought about yourself and say the opposite right away! Tell yourself how amazingly you are doing, how everything is falling into place for you, how beautiful you are, how talented you are, how CONFIDENT you are etc. You get the idea. Put your mind in the right positive space and just being in that energy will bring more of that energy and experiences into your life.

"The women who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet." - Mohadesa Najumi

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I truly hope this woke you ladies right up! Brought some new energy and ideas that you can place in your life so that you can start walking, talking, acting and breathing like the bad-ass confident goddess that you are!

Do not be afraid of your shine, you came to this planet to be a star and help others shine their light as well. Welcome and embrace your goddess energy.

Lots of love, Alexandra


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