"If you look long enough into the void. The void begins to look back through you." - Friedrich Nietzsche
is something that we ALWAYS try to fill, always trying to be in control of it and all its circumstances and experiences.
We simply have to realize that when we want to control so much, that it actually doesn't allow any more space to create anything else. Something that WE can't even see or perceive ourselves since we are limited in all the options WE think we can SEE and THINK OF.
You see.. the void is simply the space that is available between where we are and where we want to go.
Most people want to be in so much control of their future, that they start planning strategies and ways of getting from A to B.
Now, sometimes this does work but truly, ACTUALLY think about how many times did your plan EXACTLY work out the way you thought it would?
See, we have a goal and that is OKAY and a wonderful and beautiful thing to have this GOAL or INTENTION.
WE ALL DO! WE ALL SHOULD!
But, we cannot see and think of EVERY WAY POSSIBLE in order to get to where you want to be, how do you know that a better way doesn't exist?
You don't, because it's hard to understand all the components of where you are and where you want to be. There are literally over a million ways and possibilities of getting there.
But we usually lock onto one or two ways, get super anxious and frustrated when it doesn't work out the way we thought it should. Usually after that, we throw our hands in the air, get angry/mad/upset and say:
"I am JUST NOT WORTH IT. THIS ISN'T MEANT TO BE.",
which actually stops your momentum since you end up believing that your desire just isn't worthy of you.
But, how do you know that that path you were on wasn't part of a greater plan for you?
We absolutely cannot know how everything will work out, plus that also is not trusting that what you want will come to you because you feel the need to control every little detail of getting to your destination.
What FUN is that ???
The whole part of life people need to understand is that we shouldn't KNOW EVERYTHING, WE DON'T HAVE TO!
What fun is that to control everything in your life?
(If you do CONTROL everything in your life that truly means you feel insecure. The best way to understand why is through hypnotherapy to get rid of the constant controlling stress you keep putting on yourself. Inquire through here)
The fun part is understanding what we want and trusting OUR OWN PATH of not always knowing everything and how we are going to get there. Just trusting and knowing that the space in front of you is currently being built, assigning different people and things in place so that you have an awesome and fun journey getting to where you want to be.
That is how our life should be.
We need to let go.
We need to trust.
And we must also believe and understand that we are worthy of all our desires, we just don't need to know how everything is going to happen. After all, we all enjoy the spontaneous and serendipitous moments in life. That is what makes life fun.
Watch my video below to understand more about what I am talking about and my own personal story of trusting the void, allowing life to unfold as it will. Trusting that it is taking me to where I want to go.
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