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Be IT Before You Become IT | Creating What You Want

"Everything in your life is a reflection of a choice you made. If you want a different result, make a different choice." - unknown

I will DO/BE that ONCE I get there, are such common words amongst many many people. It was always natural to say, think and believe that you can only BE something once you achieve that goal but here in 2020 we are changing that up, because many of us are starting to wake up the idea that before I transform into the magical beautiful butterfly, I must undergo the energy of it FIRST.

Finally, we are starting to get places when we can accept that we are no longer waiting for our reality to come to be but we are starting to act as if it is. That is exactly what makes it come to be. It is the whole BELIEVE IT BEFORE YOU SEE IT, remember hearing this in your childhood? I do and funny thing is when most people were saying the opposite how they need to SEE something BEFORE they BELIEVE IT, I was already on that train where I had to BELIEVE in something in order to SEE it. Kind of a mind twister right?

"As you think, so shall you become." - Bruce Lee

I get it and I do agree with you because most of us were trained our whole life that in order to truly believe in something we must see it first, well us being awesome contradictory human beings (how many believe in a God though they have never seen the being with their own two eyes?) we may think we believe that we need to see something in order to believe in it but many times believe in something before we even see it with our two eyes, but we only apply that believe to things that FEEL like it's natural to us to be accepted before having any perception of it.

Confusing right? but that is just how contradictory we are.

Well, because we know we can contradict ourselves quite often and are starting to understand that many people HAD to BELIEVE IN SOMETHING before they even had it, is becoming way more common then before. People now are a bit more open to the fact that maybe they need to do the opposite to finally start creating a life they truly want.

And finally, we are getting to an era where people are more open minded to things that use to be put in place in their childhood. FINALLY. I can bet you are one of those folks, if you have made it this far into reading this post and I am so happy you are as you are one who has been questioning your reality and trying to make sense of how you can make your life much better then it was before.

"You'll see it when you believe it." - Dr. Wayne Dyer

Congratulations because the answer, like most of my answers are SIMPLE but they do require commitment and work to start actually seeing and experiencing changes in your life.

Firstly, you need to get super specific in what it is that you want in your life and be certain that it is likely to achieve it, if you already have a hard time believing that it is achievable, then you are further away from that future and you need to work out the kinks as to why you don't believe in that kind of reality for yourself in the first place.

But let's say that you do believe that what you want is likely to get but you see the gap between where you are now vs. where you want to be. That is okay because we need to know that yes there is a gap and that if I really want to I can definitely get there. Wonderful, the next step is to envision yourself in that future and ask yourself questions in how is that future you different from present day you. You will see the gaps, you will know and understand the differences. It can be everything and anything from what you look like, to what you do on a daily basis, to your behaviour/personality, to your daily habits.

It is all of that and again you need to get specific in what that future you is doing and the next time is to start implementing all those things into your current daily habits.

It will feel weird. It will feel odd. You may even have to push yourself to start doing those things to how future you is doing it.

It will feel strange because firstly you are feeling the GAP between current you and future you but the minute that those daily habits start becoming more natural is when you know you are starting to close that gap and are getting closer to that future reality you wish to experience.

You may think that it CAN'T BE THAT SIMPLE?!? Well it is but I can assure you that it actually isn't simple, the amount of clients I have worked with in this specific area to start implementing these new habits, it actually way more challenging than you may think, since our old self will fight the new habits even if they are positive. Why? because our old identity has survived on the old habits and doesn't know how the future will look like without them (it the subconscious mind that plays a big part and makes things way more confusing then it needs to be)

"See it first in your mind, then become it." - Steve Backley

This is truly how you start BEING what you want to be so that you can eventually become it fully and experience the reality you desire. You are embodying all the new downloads, structures and belief system to support a new reality you would like to find yourself in.

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I highly suggest writing and being super descriptive in how you would like your future to look like and then focusing on the key areas that will bring you closer to it. Now let me know in the comments below what you are willing to dedicate yourself to? What new habits will the current you now take to get closer to future you? LMK Lots of love,

- Alexandra


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