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Fine Line Between Speaking Your Truth & An Inflated Ego

"I removed your ego and it turns out it was clogging your reality." - unknown

We are living in a time right now where everyone says and does SPEAK THEIR TRUTHS. It's wonderful and all, since everyone is making their space to express themselves authentically and not be scared anymore of what is going on inside of them.

I truly think it is a wonderful thing, as I have always been one to speak too much about my own opinions or what I thought was right from wrong, or if I ever saw something that was absolutely not right, I would speak up while most people would just put their head down and walk away. It made me the outcast in a sense and people who knew me, knew I sometimes could go too far when speaking my truths and over stepping some boundaries.

This is the thing, when I work with my clients, I do want them to get to the point of expressing their authentic self but our sneaky ego likes to hide in certain masks pretending its a spiritual guru or finally it can speak its voice behind the "authentic" self.

I guess this whole thing to reaching your highest self is truly a journey, as I see most people make the same mistakes over and over again.

"We can say what we need to say. We can gently , but assertively , speak our mind. We do not need to be judgemental , tactless, blaming or cruel when we speak our truths." - Melody Beattie

When we come out of our shells of being suppressed and discover the beauty and power that comes from speaking your voice and expressing your truths, it can go a little too far and actually hurt some people without us really wanting to hurt them. Some people even say that they didn't care if they hurt them as they couldn't handle the "truth." lol I see you EGO (I have been in this place before) as much as some people can't handle the "truth", we ALL have our own truths and absolutely NO ONE IS RIGHT OR WRONG ABOUT IT!

We all just have our own perspectives about life and we all have the freedom of believing those perspectives until a time comes when we want to change them without other peoples opinions or suggestions.

So the thing about speaking your truth without your ego getting too over inflated and creating a mighty stand for it, is you have to mix it with compassion. You are allowed to speak your truth but as long as you don't step onto peoples toes and hurt everyone around you, making it so that no one wants to be around you because you walk around like you know everything.

You actually have to make room for other people to have space in speaking their truths and honouring their space so that they can express them safely without being attacked.

"Be careful , think about the effect of what you say. Your words should be constructive, bring people together, not pull them apart." - Miriam Makeba

It's about balance, remembering that you absolutely can express yourself safely and authentically but also understand when your truths may go way too far for someone. This is a place where I call in my intuition, when I know that I may cross some boundaries for someone, I do outweigh which would be better as some times what I feel must be said, just doesn't need to be said and I can keep it for myself.

Getting to this safe area where you are expressing yourself but allowing others to also express themselves, without making it about you means having compassion and empathy for those people too. It doesn't mean they will be your best friends if you two truly do have completely different views about the world but it also doesn't mean that that is a person you have to hate or disrespect.

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Remember we are all sharing this world and we all have the right to sincerely express ourselves as we are the artists of our own reality.

Don't over step boundaries and don't step on peoples toes slowly making a reputation for yourself you walk around knowing absolutely everything about everything.

No one likes that.

Sending you all lots of love & light.



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