"It is far better to follow your own path imperfectly, than to follow another's perfectly." - Bhagavad Gita
You know what to do, you know exactly how to get to where you want to be.
Just don't doubt it.
Don't allow limiting beliefs to sabotage that.
You can't copy other peoples algorithms and make it your own, you must follow your own as you know exactly what road to take to take you to the next level.
Comparison is something that gets to EVERY SINGLE ONE OF US!!! We are constantly looking at other people and getting jealous of their journey compared to our own. Obviously social media and having our lives online is the easiest way of comparing ourselves now since everyone is always posting the highlights on of their life.
So it's easy to look at others and just feel ashamed or sad about our own journey, but I can guarantee you that continuing to do this won't bring you any closer to happiness or success in your own life. So do what you must but I always tell my clients that if you feel very triggered over the things that are online either completely get rid of it and ban yourself from this kind of self punishment or simply unfollow those who are negative or who just continuously subconsciously trigger you, there is no sense of this kind of self abuse.
"She silently stepped out of the race she never wanted to be in, found her own lane and proceeded to win." - unknown
What I also want people to understand, especially those who have a harder time deleting their socials or have their business online, is that comparison or copying someone else is truly USELESS. It actually won't bring you much success if you are trying to go down the same road as others.
I understand that subconsciously we do this as this kind of behaviour was taught to us by our parents and society, since they usually were the driving force in our lives telling us what we should do and what road to take to have GUARANTEED success and happiness in our lives.
Those who have listened to their parents/caregivers or society and went the common path of going to school, graduating and then doing something safe as this was told to us that will bring us safety and security, usually find out long after that that wasn't the case. They aren't happy in the jobs/relationships/lives they are in now and wonder how the people they trusted the most could of failed them or maybe that there is something wrong with them that they aren't happy in the lives they are in now.
"Walk your own path and be yourself." - Joanne Nussbaum
Well I can surely tell you it has nothing to do with that; there isn't anything wrong with you, you just followed someone else advice and path that was surely to fail you because IT DIDN'T COME FROM YOU!
See, we actually all KNOW the path to our own happiness and success but most of the time it gets shut down very quickly when we are young and are told we are crazy to think that way. Well whoever said that was crazy to think it was crazy as most likely when they were young, they had their own dreams and visions but someone in their life shut it down very quickly and told them what path they should take.
Take a look around you, most people aren't happy to have followed and trusted some path that someone else told them they should take. Those people almost always look very drained and lifeless, even if you take a look at their lifestyle and it seems otherwise, you can be sure they feel dead inside.
I have worked with so many clients especially around this, around creating a life they will feel FULFILLED, HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL IN, and guess what? It always looks very unique and different from the lives they are living currently. When we can lay it down in front of them and see what makes them happy, how they see their road map to their purpose, they can finally start seeing the steps they need to take to live that kind of a life.
It is their own algorithm to their own success; to their own life!!
We all have different ones folks and absolutely no one can copy another persons algorithm. Our lives aren't a computer program where we just put certain numbers in, do something in a specific way and then boom we get the successful and happy life. We are organic beings with an organic life, meaning it is and should be completely unique and our own.
"if you can see your path laid out in front of you step by step, you know it's not your path. Your own path you make with every step you take. That's why it's your path." - Joseph Campbell
Once we can follow our own algorithm to our amazing life, that is when we can start feeling happiness, love, joy, abundance etc. It is your own unique life meant to be lived in your own unique way which is exactly why comparing your life to another is completely useless.
Everyone is doing something different that makes them feel happy and successful and just because it is working for someone else, doesn't mean it will work for you or vice versa. If you dare to look at other people and their happiness and success in life, be happy for them for they found their own path and know that you can find your own path in life that will lead you down to a fulfilling life as well.
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Don't copy someone else's path too because they can only lead you down to failure and misery. Just tune in into yourself and find out the journey that your own soul must take to make this life whatever your soul wants it to be. You absolutely know the journey; the algorithm to your own success.
Tune in and figure it out so you can start living your life in that way.
Lots of love,
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