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Loving World Vs Hostile World | Which Do You Live In?

"Loving people live in a loving world, hostile people live in a hostile world, same world." - Dr. Wayne Dyer

I know for many of you 2020 has been a year of chaos, uncertainty, fear and negativity and now rolling into 2021 it doesn't seem to be getting any better, does it? For those who have lost and been truly affected by it, my heart goes out to all of you and along with this post, it is meant for those who have been painted with fear and grief. So take what you may and I hope this helps you see things from a different perspective.

I will have to say that 2020 for me despite the roller coaster of things happening, has been an amazing year for me. This was a year I truly grew my business, my spirituality, my relationships and understood myself even better. 2020 has shown me freedom instead of being restricted, it has shown me what is truly important and not indulging in material goods, it has shown me a better side of ME.

"Changing your perspectives will not only transform you but also the whole world." - Jihae Park

2021 now is just another layer to that, I do not intend to stop my practices and my growth, I ignore what is going on in our world because I am concentrating on my own quality of life and well being, which many of you should do the same. Our mental health is so important that you must be willing to do anything to protect it and grow it in positive ways.

See something that I came to realize even deeper and understand more now is that we truly live in a loving, friendly and beautiful world despite what the news and other social media platforms are trying to sell you.

"When you change your thoughts and perception, you change the way you live." - Rita Zahara

These certain big corporate outlets know that many of you have given them the control of what to think, feel and believe which is truly unfortunate as that is giving your power away so easily. These outlets paint a certain picture of what is going on in this world, day after day, minute after minute trying to keep you engaged and caught up with these "big" and "drastic" events.

They want you plugged in.

Which you are willing doing but you can stop that. You can come to realize that all of this news is not making you feel good about yourself or the world. You can choose to stop giving your energy to those streams, you can literally start to have a different perspective on life.

These news outlets are trying to sell you the idea of fear and negativity to keep you trapped in the game that we are all playing here, because if you so willingly believe what they are all telling you, you are trapped in fear and fear keeps you separated from others, withdrawn, lost and stuck not knowing what to do.

So then you listen even more intensively as these new outlets must have the answer of what will protect us, what should we do when so and so happens. It's literally a game, a belief that this world is so negative, so dark that we must trust nothing but what these big corporations tell you.

It's quite sad actually.

How willingly some of you give your power away so easily.

One of the best things I did a couple years ago was GET RID OF CABLE!! oh my god, what a relief. I know nothing about what's going on and I am happy that way, sure some of you may say: "well you're ignorant!!" Well isnt there a wonderful saying that IGNORANCE IS BLISS. haha I am surely living that out now, but to add to that, I obviously know what is going on without the news telling me. Why?

Because firstly, I am surrounded by others who watch the news and talk about what is going on and there is also social media that I do participate in that spreads these latest events like hot cakes. I surely know what is going on but at the same time I CHOOSE not to focus on it, I CHOOSE not to participate in it, I CHOOSE not to buy into the idea of fear and negativity.

"Sometimes people don't want to hear the truth because they don't want their illusions destroyed." - Friedrich Nietzsche

Why you may ask?

Because I have lived that way before and have experienced it, it is absolutely exhausting and not a benefit for me to live in fear and think that everything and everyone is some kind of bad person that is out to get people. Sure I may have had experiences of not nice people, of some horrible experiences (don't think that just because I believe this is a friendly, beautiful and loving world, I haven't had some of my own misfortunes) I realized that people create their layer of reality and whatever they choose to believe, literally comes to be in their life. So I started choosing love, peace and happiness. I started to believe that this is a loving, friendly and happy world with happy, loving and supportive people and because I believe in that, I experience that.

This thinking has helped me not feel so trapped, stuck and separate from others. It has helped me feel like we are all apart of this wonderful world, here to help one another, here to feel love and beauty and just be good. Truly this world is filled with beautiful, happy, loving and positive people. You were given an idea that it is the opposite and then shown experiences/events over and over again to get that idea ingrained in your head. I do not look at that anymore because I believe in an opposite idea. I believe that we live in a loving and friendly world so whatever is out there that doesn't support that idea, is just not apart of my world. Period.

"The most important decision we make is whether we believe we live in a friendly or hostile universe." - Albert Einstein

Choose what you must, go with whatever you heart tells you. I am not telling you folks to look at the world the same way but it is just a suggestion to help you feel happier, freer and lighter. Think about which of those perspectives keeps you stuck and which one offers you freedom.

Either way, it will always be up to you how you look at this world that we all live in and share.

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Lots of love to you,

- Alexandra


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