"Go with the flow. Force nothing. Let it happen...trusting that whichever way it goes. It's for the best." - Mandy Hale We have a been there where we have planned everything down to the T, that we get so preoccupied on the agenda and our to do list, that we don't expect for something else to happen or go another way than originally planned.
Thing is what is it that we usually do?
We get frustrated.
We get upset.
We get angry. We shout, we yell and express how the world treats us SO UNFAIRLY!! *pout*
Thing is how do you know it actually went a bad way?
Let me give you an example: Let's say you planned a beautiful road trip down to your favourite spot (be it a beach, a camping trip, a winery, a shopping centre, a new town to roam around in) and everyone planned to leave around 12pm with their favourite snacks, music and company. You guys also noted how you really wanted to go on that boat cruise while you are in the area that leaves around 6pm for an hour. You wake up and it turns out one of the people who planned on going had to stay 3 hours longer at work but you guys all planned to leave together. So most of you agree to wait on that person to end their shift and you will pick them up immediately so that you can try and make it to that boat cruise. While on the way there, you guys got stuck in traffic because of an accident that happened earlier, causing you guys to get there a little after 6pm and causing you to also miss that boat cruise.
So most people here, would get super upset, almost angry at their friend, the job and the whole situation, hell even angry at the stupid drivers who had to be on the road and got into an accident causing you guys completely ruin your plans. NOW, this is just ONE way of looking at this, the one way where people believe that their world is AGAINST them. The world is unfair and always making their lives so miserable and difficult.
"To different minds, the same world is a hell, and a heaven." - J.B Priestley
Thing is the people in that one end of the spectrum will always have a world that causes them problems and make their lives difficult because they are so caught up in that perspective, that they fail to see anything else. Most likely the people in that scenerio, got to the town and checked in their hotel rooms just to fall asleep and make their day end as soon as possible because of how crummy it was.
NOW, let's take a look at a perspective where these folks believe that their world is taking care of them and is always working in their FAVOUR!! Those girls could of looked at the accident on their way as a sign as "Thank god, Susie worked longer because who knows if we would of ended up in that accident causing more damage than truly necessary." Making them feel more at ease, have empathy for the folks that got into the accident and still having hope that maybe they may make it for the boat cruise.
"Loving people live in a loving world. Hostile people live in a hostile world. Same World." - Dr. Wayne Dyer
Once they arrive, turns out they still miss out on the boat cruise but decide to still enjoy the rest of their day, because of their attitude and different view on perspective, they arrive, check in into their rooms, and decide to see what they can do. They got their refund on the cruise, went into one of the towns restaurant and because of their energy being so high and vibrant, attracted some other people to chat and bond with. Turns out these people were about to go on their friends yacht in an hour to dance and have some fun.
Because those people were getting along so well, they invited the girls on the boat to have fun and dance the night away. The girls realized that everything went according to plan and it turned out that their night went so much better than they would of ever expected and never would of met the people they met, if Susie never stayed longer at work, getting into traffic and missing the cruise.
Do you see how it's all about perspective now? How easy it is to switch from one world view to another?
Just by simply stating that your world is not agasint you or fighting you but in fact taking care of you in ways you can't ever expect but always leaves you smiling and understanding that it was for the better.
"What amazes me is that you can have 10 different photographers in the same room, and you see 10 different rooms. You realize how much of it is the person's perspective rather than the situation itself." - Rick Smolan
It's just about switching how you see things. & why not see how everything is always working out in your favour even if there is something "bad" that happens or something doesn't go exactly how you planned or expected it to! It is always up to you how to see things but I perfer seeing how my world is actually taking care of me, even if it doesn't go exactly how I think it should.
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I will leave it up to the reader to decide for themselves how they choose to see their world. Sending you all lots of love and light,
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