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Understanding The Inner & Outer Worlds | How To Start Truly Living

"Happy people build their inner world; unhappy people blame their outer world" - T. Harv Eker

Most people these days feel lost, scared, angry, confused and frustrated, all because they keep experiencing the same sort of things over and over again! They keep experiencing things like: - Broken Relationships - Lack of Abundance - Toxic Friendships - Unhappy Careers - Feeling Worthless - Missed Opportunities and the list goes on. Many of us end up blaming someone or something OUT THERE for the things that are happening in our lives currently, but the absolute truth is, THE OUTER WORLD IS JUST YOUR MIRROR; IT IS REFLECTING WHAT YOU ARE FEELING AND BELIEVING IN THE INSIDE!!

I know to many people that sounds like an absolute wild crazy story but that is the truth. When you have certain beliefs about relationships, money, society, the outer world will ALWAYS reflect those exact beliefs to you and even have evidence for you as to WHY you should believe those things.

When all of that is false. It's an old story you came up with, ended up thinking that that was the truth. You are always able to come up with a NEW story; a story or belief that will start to empower you and your life.

"Your outer world is simply a reflection of your inner world" - Dr. Deepak Chopra

When you talk to people who have certain successes in their lives, which could be in relationships, career, money etc. You would see that they have certain believes in those areas making the outer world reflect EXACTLY what they believe!

I believe we experience so much sorrow and suffering because it is the outer world trying to give us a sign like: "HEEELLLOOOOO!! It does not have to be this way! This can all change but it starts with you. I will continue to show you these things until you wake up in the INSIDE." Unfortunately, a lot of us have to go through a lot of turmoil before we begin to crack this code (myself included), before we get so fed up creating the same patterns over and over again, finally thinking to ourselves: "How am I creating this? Why does this keep showing up in my world for me?"

"When your inner world is fragmented, the outer world is broken. When the inner world is flowery and unbroken, the outer world is healed by your presence." - Amit Ray

We must ask ourselves the right questions in order to get a better understanding of why this is happening and whats the root reason behind it. Once you start tuning into yourself; your inner world and start catering to it, you will start to see it reflect on the outside. Of course, most people will practice one day or for one month and say: "Absolutely nothing has changed." to which my expression is always:

What makes people think that just because they started to realize what was really going on in the inside and them starting to cater to their inside world for a day or a month, that that will absolutely change immediately? You got all this OLD momentum from the OLD state of mind that still is manifesting into your outer world.

"Our greatest human potential is expressed when the consciousness of our inner world and the consciousness of the outer world are lived fearlessly without a conflict between either side." - Mada Eliza Dalian

You have to give the outer world some time before it can catch up to your NEW state of mind. Don't quit and stop just because you haven't seen the results yet! It will ALL come, just continue doing the work and get a coach to help you through the hard times for when you are processing all the new information! Remember, all the outer world is ever trying to show you is exactly where you are at! Exactly what you need to work on, in order for something to change. Don't give up, don't fret or get angry, just start tuning within and making sure that your inner world supports the exact things you would like to experience in the outside world.

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Lots of love, -Alexandra


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