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You Are Born Into Your Frequency | Destroying Limiting Beliefs

"I think people who vibrate at the frequency, vibrate towards each other. They call it in science, sympathetic vibrations." - Erykah Badu

If you have been following me for a while, you know time and time again how many times I have said this, but WE ARE ALL ENERGY!!!

If you are new to this site and new to spirituality/metaphysics, this may be something you are just learning but all in all, if you do your research and even read on quantum physics, you will come to an understanding how everything, including humans are ENERGY.

"If you want your life on the outside to change, you need to work on your frequency on the inside." - Reese Evans

But I am not here to talk about energy, quite in fact I am here to talk about WHY YOU KEEP MANIFESTING/ATTRACTING THE SAME CRAPPY SITUATIONS OVER AND OVER AGAIN. Because I get it, I have been there myself with the timeless question of: "Why does this always happen to me?" "Why am I always in this same crappy relationship/situation/career etc.?!?!" and we are left powerless and lonely in never understanding that answer, which is why I do the work I do.

I help people get a better understanding of why in the world they keep attracting the same situations over and over again, never getting the better hand in that area of their life and what you can do to start attracting the opposite.

So I will try to keep this as simple as possible as entering this kind of world can set you down a rabbit hole that never seems to end. When we are born into our families; i.e. our ENVIRONMENTS, we are in a theta level brain wave state which is actually HYPNOSIS (shocking right? and you thought you can only experience hypnosis if you go to a hypnotherapist ;P Nope! You enter this world in a state of hypnosis ;) ) and this state helps us to download all the relevant information for our survival for when we start to enter a more beta level brain wave state which most adults operate on.

So if your parents had a horrible relationship, talked about how awful relationships are, how money is hard to make, how unfair the world is, how people scam others, well then you will most certainly apply that and experience that into your life.

"All possible frequency combinations already exist at this very moment. So, this means you can change your frequency by changing your thoughts, attitudes and assumptions." - Unknown

What else I would like to say here is that we adopt the SAME FREQUENCY as our parents; i.e ENVIRONMENT, as we usually come in with a higher frequency of love and understanding, over time we learn from our parents what home frequency we should stay at. Which is the same as attracting and getting the same things they did in life, as in yours as well, which is why most peoples lives look very similar to their parents, if not in lifestyle then certainly in behaviour or vice versa. This same frequency as your parents keeps you at that same level of attracting awful situations, relationships, careers and events in your life, as the only way to get the things you want, YOU MUST VIBRATE AT THAT SAME LEVEL OF THE THINGS YOU WANT.

But most of us don't. We operate at a frequency that only attracts the unfortunate.

So, you may be like: "Ok so I undertstand the only reason, I am getting the same unfortunate things in my life is because I am vibrating at that same level of those misfortunes. How do I change it?" & the answer is the same as always, QUITE SIMPLE but definitely not an easy thing to do. You must change

your home frequency to the one of fortunate and positive experiences. You may be thinking: "Well, I didn't;t even know I operated at some frequency, how in the world am I suppose to know what frequency and what level to operate on as I don't actually SEE these things." I totally get it and I use to ask myself the same question when I would hear about these concepts. Good news is, you don't have to SEE or even FEEL this frequency, as that is irrelevant. (some people do and that is wonderful and easier to understand for them, but if you don't just know that is completely okay as well) We are just using a concept for you to understand that we indeed are vibrational beings and in order to attract certain things in our life, we must vibrate at that same level.

"When you emit the perfect frequency of what you want, the perfect people, circumstances, and events will be attracted to you and delivered." - Rhonda Byrne

Getting to a level where you want to experience a loving relationship, a thriving career, a wonderful blissful life etc. is asking yourself the question of:

"How would I feel if I got the successful relationship/career/life etc.?!"

and simply answer that question and be fully descriptive. For example:

If it is a loving relationship that you are after, you may experience the feelings of:

  • Safety

  • Connection

  • Security

  • Wellbeing

  • Love

  • Happiness

  • Peace

  • Joy

  • Fun


Now it is just attuning yourself to those feelings in order to raise your frequency to that level of a loving relationship. Which simply means, DO THE THINGS THAT MAKE YOU FEEL THAT WAY!!!!!!!!!

Now you need to find out what are the things that make you feel safe, connection, secure, love, happiness etc. For example, it could be wrapping yourself in a blanket watching a funny romantic film. It could be going biking with your friends at the beach, it could be taking a bubble bath. Whatever that is, just do the things that make you feel that way and the more you practice those states, the more you raise your frequency to the level of whatever you want to experience.

it truly is that simple but not easy to do, but definitely not easy as our old identity and our old frequency will try to set us back to it's natural state of being. You need to resist this and just concentrate on those feelings long enough, until that frequency starts to become your natural set point.

"Everything is energy and that is all there is to it. Match the frequency of the reality that you want and you cannot help but get that reality. It can be no other way. This is not philosophy. This is physics." - Albert Einstein

Once you are able to do this, that is when you will start to experience that amazing, beautiful relationship/career/life.

Staying accountable and persistent is key in order to achieve this and I know how our human mind can be stubborn to make this simple task seem impossible, which is why I offer the container that I do for my clients so that they can easily and effectively achieve this level. If this perked up an interest in you, just click here to go to my inquiry page so that we can set up a free discovery phone call on getting you started on the right path.

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